self reliance 

to start i am going to tell you the meaning of this values , patience and caring , patience is 

The capacity to accept or tolerate delay, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious. and caring is displaying kindness and concern for others. 

the relationship in self reliance with the values of patience and caring is that , in the value of patience we can see that the author edgar is always thinking on be patience with ourself and also to discover the real menaing of the life and the actions that we made, the value of patience is something that all humans would have to know or apply because is something really important to live in a good and a happy way because we are always going to have someone how wants to regrets us of our feeling or way of thinking of life , beacuse all man has a different perspective of things , and we have to do what we want not what other wnats us to do , because then you will be living a sad and boring life , even though man always believes they are the ones who know everything in this world they believe all the things they earn are good but they do not see that they are wrong. they might make mistake in his steps and there is the problem , they do not accept reality because accepting reality is not in his mind. the issue here is that they do not accept someones else opinion because  it looks like their mind is not available for thought or opinions. 

the relationship with the value od caring and self reliance is that caring in humans or well in man is not that specified because it looks it only matter how he lived his life, how he did not care too much what others think about his life, he only thought sabout himself, it is rare cause caring about others is not that common, naturally humans think about themselve because it is how they are raced and it is how they are raced and it is understandab le due to time because everything but not everyone is able to make that change, caring about others and comments from outside are also constructive in the life of everyone, just gotta be a little open mind.

To conclude due to the lecture i can say that man thinks only on themselve, it is hard to believe but with the pass of the time we all know that it is true, we hope that everything can change in a near future if they stop thinking how they think only of them, after them there is no one but there is, they are all perfect but that little error in them does not let them hear or make some changes in their life and thoughts. even the circumstances of all yhe past years is unbelievable that the man has not made the change yet. although it can pass a lot of time the man is the same and he has his own faith. we hope they can realize that making a little change can fix everything.